Archive | January, 2012

Things I was not prepared for #4 – Crying

20 Jan

I knew that my child would cry; all babies cry. Some cry more than others, and as I was a colicky baby I was prepared for the worst. We got lucky though – our baby is not much of a crier, in fact the first three months were relatively quiet. When our baby cried we were always able to easily soothe him, a long bout of crying would never last longer than four minutes. Quiet times have left the house and we now listen to our baby cry often and there is often not an easy or quick way to soothe him (but that is another issue for another post).

But that is not the crying that I am surprised by, it is my own crying that surprises me. I knew I would love my child and I knew that there would be aspects of parenting that I would find more difficult than others; but I was not prepared to be the mother that cries listening to the cries of her child. I thought I would be the tougher parent, the one who would not be afraid to make the tough choices and could handle protests. Well, I have found that I cannot. Not even a little.

Parenting is not easy, and now I see that I need to work on growing a slightly thicker skin.

 

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