Resolutions for 2012

23 Dec

I generally do not make New Year’s Resolutions; my birthday is December 31 and having to make a list of arduous tasks to start the day after my birthday is not appealing. However, I just finished reading  The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin and have decided to embark on my own mini happiness project. Gretchen inspired me to focus on making myself happy and letting that happiness improve the moods of people around me. As a new mom (although I expect most parents feel like this), doing anything for me impossible and my personality makes taking time for me that much more difficult as I am always putting others’ needs ahead of my own.

My goal is that in doing a few things for me, I will  be a better parent, partner, friend, and person. Also, I think Gretchen makes a sound argument for the fact that focusing on your own happiness is not selfish, especially when your mood affects the moods and wellbeing of others around you. Therefore, I have decided to allow myself to do more for me and to not feel selfish about focusing some energy on making me happy.

I have organized my resolutions into things I will do for me, and then resolutions that focus on my partner, my child, other people, and my dogs. As Gretchen did, I made a resolutions chart where I will chart my success and keep myself on track. Now that I have everything all set-up, I’m taking a breather before the “hard work” of focusing on me in 2012!

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2 Responses to “Resolutions for 2012”

  1. midlife singlemum December 24, 2011 at 10:17 am #

    I had to come by and see who is eating htier latkes with ketchup. Good luck with your resolutions. Happy Hanukkah and a Great New Year.

  2. claudiawjohnson December 25, 2011 at 6:40 pm #

    I nominated you for the Liebster Blog Award.
    http://braincaviar.wordpress.com/2011/12/26/day-360-thank-you-thank-you-to-you-and-to-you/

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